Wishes

I have had one of those weeks when I begin to question why I dropped out of psyche 101 all those years ago.  It seemed as though everyone was going through something, and my job was to help them.  And now that I really think about it, my life is kinda like that.  I feel as though my job description should include counsellor or mentor.... something along those lines.

When did this happen?

Don't get me wrong, I'm not complaining at all.  In fact, truth be told, I get a little giddy when I get to listen and help someone work through a problem.  It has occurred to me on more than one occasion that this is the reason I am here.  I love being able to laugh with someone or cry with them too.  I love to see the lightbulb go off when they see the answer for themselves.  I love the hugs that follow... or sometimes chocolate.

Chocolate is always good.

I have often wondered why I have chosen to write about the words, but now I get it.  It's my way of conducting mass therapy for all.  I simply want us all to have a better life.

To make better choices.
To see the bright side.
To make the change that is long overdue.
To be grateful and say thank you.
To know that happiness isn't something you have to look for.
To understand that letting go is okay.
To find your path.

I was recently asked to write something for someone who has been a part of my life for the past nineteen years (maybe more, and yes, it's been that long).  She is finally taking the plunge and doing something she has wanted to do for a long time, and while that can be exciting, it's also a little scary.  The words 'Be careful what you wish for,' resonate in times like this.  I have no doubt she is doing exactly what she is supposed to be doing, otherwise the stars wouldn't have lined up for her this way.  But just the same, change can be hard.  

I have given this so much thought, because you know I want to get it right.  The last thing she needs is a lame post about following your dreams, blah, blah, blah.  Then I realized, almost every post I write is for her.  When I sit down to do this, I am usually carrying around what is going on in my life, or in my friend's lives, and I write for them.  I try to inspire, encourage, and problem solve along the way, and if something makes you giggle, well then my job is done.

And sometimes I need to steal from others to convey what I want to say...

My wish, for you, is that this life becomes all that you want it to,
Your dreams stay big, and your worries stay small,
You never need to carry more than you can hold,
And while you're out there getting where you're getting to,
I hope you know somebody loves you, and wants the same things too,
Yeah, this, is my wish.

~ Rascal Flatts

I think she'd approve.  

And since she's a lifer, we'll be celebrating her all week!

Enjoy this amazing weather :)