Discoveries

The excerpt below is from my cousin, Michelle, who was diagnosed with breast  cancer in January.  

She posted this on her page last night and I just thought it might be the best thing ever, to learn so many wonderful things from something so horrible.  May we all learn something from her strength and faith.... 

I hope you enjoy.

I have been thinking about all the things I have learned during the last nine months of this battle (yes it has already been nine months – to me they are nine LONGGGG months, to you I am sure you are thinking – wow that went fast – if so, I might have to hurt you ;-) Here are a few things that I learned that I want to share with you (here is the really inspirational stuff ;-)

· I discovered that my husband really meant it when he said – “in sickness and in health” (have I mentioned how wonderful he has been). He has provided amazing care and showed me what true love really is.

· I discovered that cancer does not change who I am on the inside

· I discovered how many wonderful friends I have

· I discovered what a wonderful catholic community we have

· I discovered that Farm Bureau truly is a FAMILY of companies and is wonderful

· I discovered that some of my friends are wonderful cooks and some not so much (but I am not complaining – I appreciated all the help - except for that weight watchers corn bread - kidding, ok I am not kidding) ;-)

· I discovered some wonderful new friends that have been soooo supportive

· I discovered that my son Konnor can look at me and know exactly what I need, and provides that to me without me asking (hugs, cleaning, foot rubs, etc.)

· I discovered how truly blessed I am

· I discovered that I need to MAKE time for my family and friends because you never know when life will be cut short

· I discovered that my sister is amazing and cares about me a lot

· I discovered that I can’t focus on what “might” happen, but instead need to focus on the present

· I discovered that I need to do things I care about and do them NOW

· I discovered that I don’t need to be concerned with bad hair days, just be happy I have some

· I discovered that when you see someone with a disfigurement or a scarf on their head, not to look away and pretend I didn’t see them, but to instead look them in the eye and smile

 . I discovered that I can't always be wonder woman - sometimes you need to let people help you

. I discovered sometimes you have to give up control and let God guide you and you have to have faith in His plan for you

. I discovered that prayers really do work (I knew this already, but it was definitely confirmed)

. I discovered that bad things can bring a family closer together (and my family, both sides, have been awesome!!!!!!!!!)

. I discovered that my soccer team can do more than just play soccer, they are all caring and good cooks

. I discovered that maintaining a positive attitude can get you through just about anything

And most importantly,

. I discovered that God is bigger than cancer.